Jennifer Sharpe
Oct 26 2026 13:00
Many people approach estate planning with misunderstandings about what various documents do, how trusts work, and what it really means to disinherit someone. These misconceptions can create unnecessary confusion and may even lead to unintended legal or financial consequences. Taking time to understand the facts helps ensure your wishes are honored and your loved ones are protected.
Myth: Setting up a trust automatically shields your assets
A frequent assumption is that simply establishing a trust instantly provides protection for the property you own. In reality, a trust only functions as intended when it has been properly funded. This requires formally placing assets—such as real estate, bank accounts, or other holdings—into the trust’s name. Without this transfer, the items remain part of your individual estate and may still be subject to probate, potential creditors, estate taxes, or delays that a trust is designed to avoid.
Think of a trust as a container built to hold your assets. If nothing is placed inside, the container cannot carry out its purpose. Funding the trust is what activates its benefits and ensures it works as part of a larger estate planning strategy. Without moving property into the trust, it remains an empty structure that offers no real protection or probate avoidance.
Myth: Estate planning only matters after you are gone
Many people believe estate planning begins and ends with instructions for distributing assets after death. While tools like wills and trusts are certainly part of the process, a comprehensive plan also addresses important decisions that arise during your lifetime. Planning ahead allows you to appoint individuals you trust to help manage personal, financial, and medical matters if you ever become unable to handle them yourself.
Documents such as advance directives, living wills, medical powers of attorney, and HIPAA waivers give your chosen decision-makers legal authority to act on your behalf. Naming a health care surrogate ensures your medical preferences are honored, while financial powers of attorney help manage day‑to‑day obligations if an illness or injury limits your abilities. By preparing these documents, you reduce stress for your loved ones and create a clear roadmap for handling unexpected circumstances.
In this way, estate planning is as much about supporting your quality of life as it is about managing what happens afterward. These steps help protect you, your family, and your long‑term goals.
Myth: Leaving someone $1 is the right way to disinherit them
Some people have heard that giving a person a token amount—such as a single dollar—is the best way to exclude them from an estate. This outdated approach often leads to more complications than clarity. When you name someone in your will, even for a symbolic gift, that person becomes an interested party. They may gain access to private information about your estate or have an opening to contest your plan in court.
Modern estate planning practices recommend stating your intention to omit someone directly and explicitly. Clear language accomplishes the goal more effectively, reduces the likelihood of challenges, and protects your privacy. Rather than relying on symbolic gestures, the law favors straightforward wording that leaves no room for confusion or misinterpretation.
Using precise legal language helps ensure your estate plan reflects your intentions and minimizes the risk of unwanted disputes among heirs.
Overall, thoughtful estate planning is an ongoing process that benefits from regular review and guidance from an experienced professional. Drafting documents is not enough on its own—proper execution, funding, and updates are essential to ensure your plan works the way you expect. Taking these proactive steps can help safeguard your assets, simplify future decision‑making, and provide peace of mind for the people you care about.
Jennifer D. Sharpe, P.A.
Jennifer D. Sharpe is a Fort Lauderdale estate planning attorney and founder of Sharpe Planning, helping South Florida families with estate planning, probate, elder law, and trust administration. A former Deloitte CPA with an LL.M. in taxation, she brings both legal and financial insight to family planning decisions.

